Working on the Sequel

Kori is currently in production on Keelie's sibling!

We were working on the concept, having recently moved to a new location with more space. Keelie premiered in June of 2007 to wide acclaim, and Kori and I planned for a multi-project deal when we originally decided to merge in 2004 and start up our production company.

So, Keelie is a big sister and if everything goes well, we'll all meet her younger sibling face-to-face this September when she emerges for the premiere and publicity tour.

Obviously, we are still in the very early going, but we have been trying for a few months and the hints were there and the home test said YES... so... we wanted to share the good news with you.

What makes it all the more exciting is that a couple with whom we are really close are due in August.

Just as Keelie was known as "Firecracker" (due to her July 5 due date) until we knew she was a girl, we are referring to this one as "Kringle" due to... well... you're smart enough to figure that one out without me actually spelling it out.

As always, you can reach us by commenting here or by e-mailing us at KEPellman [at] yahoo [dot] com.

Keelie Has More Visitors, Goes More Places

Keelie turned two weeks old today!

She has been spending most of her time at home, of course, but there have been some visits out. So far, she likes riding in the car.

This past Thursday, we went to Puma & Graddaddy’s (what we’re calling Kori’s parents now for Keelie’s convenience) so that Puma, Grandaddy, Auntie Kendra, Uncle Steve, Uncle Troy, and Uncle Toby could see her again.

Later, Troy and Toby came over to remove our old, nonworking wall air conditioner that I had started to remove, and install our new one. It was very nice of them to do that, bless them, since Kori and I had been frustrated in trying to get a couple of the big chain stores to do it. Apparently, they only deal with window units and central systems now. Together with the window unit in our bedroom, the whole condo should be kept cool now.

Friday brought Keelie’s first trip to go see a pediatrician since leaving the hospital. She cried the whole time the doctor was present. The doc worked on where Keelie’s umbilical cord had fallen off.

Saturday, Grampa and Grandma Pellman came down for a visit. While my father had been there in the hospital with us, he hadn’t had the chance to hold Keelie yet, and Kathleen had only seen her in pictures. They brought diapers along as another gift – bless them.

That's Kathleen with Keelie, and this is my father with Keelie.

Sunday, we ventured to an afternoon session of Homecoming, our small fellowship of church friends. Jeni & Jon were hosting at their place in Glendora. None of our Homecoming friends had met Keelie yet. Jenn & Dave and James & Chrissy were there, too. Jeni & Jon’s Graci, who was born in August, looks so big now! People took turns holding Keelie. This picture below is me holding her.

From there, we went to Puma & Granddaddy’s again for a family dinner. Everyone was there, including Auntie Kirby, who often misses such dinners due to work.

That's Uncle Steve holding her, and below in Auntie Kendra with Keelie.

I went into the office on Monday to take care of some things and get some work done. It is so hard to peel myself away from my two favorite ladies. Jeni & Jon provided dinner for us. - bless them! Jeni brought it over – homemade enchiladas, chocolate cake, and some veggies. There were enough of the enchiladas to have a full meal of leftovers for later, and enough cake to last for days.

Then, Puma and friend Diana came over to see Keelie for a little while.


Today, we ran a couple of errands together. Dave and Rachelle came over and brought pizza for dinner – bless them! It was nice to sit and talk with them and eat pizza as they met Keelie for the first time and held her.

Shelby, thankfully, does not seem jealous of Keelie. On the contrary, she has been very protective. Her bark and strangers passing by has become more ferocious. One evening, when I took Keelie to the minivan and sent Kori and Keelie away for a short while, Shelby was waiting for me to return to the front door as usual. However, she wasn’t satisfied with my return. She wanted Kori and Keelie to come back, too. But the clearest indication that Shelby has been changed by this is when we were getting ready to go out on Sunday. Normally, when Shelby realizes she is about to be left home alone, she eagerly anticipates an edible chew-treat. On Sunday, however, Shelby refused to accept her treat at first. Instead, she indicated she wanted to go with us. Thankfully, she eventually took the treat.


Thanks again for all of the comments, e-mails, calls, cards, gifts, and visits. We hope your Independence Day holiday is a good one.

Keelie's Birth and Everything Since - So Far

As any of you who’ve had a child of your own know, life has been very different for us this past week. The anticipation, and then the joy and elation - the nerves, the running on adrenaline so that it doesn’t matter that you haven’t slept. It's so strange, in a good way!

Here’s what has been going on.

I worked on Monday the 18th, and Kori had a morning appointment with the doctor. Kori experienced contractions throughout the day. I went to bed at roughly the usual time, and was awoken by Kori around midnight. The contractions were consistent to the point where we decided to gather up our bags, give the dog a “we’re going to be out all day” treat, and head in to the hospital.

Kori’s mother was not on shift that night.

We were admitted to the hospital around 1am.

As it turns out, Kori wasn’t actually in labor, but seeing as how the due date was close and there were some other concerns, Kori’s doctor, talking with the staff by phone, told them to go ahead and induce. That’s how the process began, in the wee hours of the morning.

As the hours grew more appropriate, I contacted various family members and friends to update them on the situation.

The doctor came in before her usual office appointments. She’d come back during her lunch break, too.

Pam and Bill were there early, Pam dressed for work because she was scheduled to work later that night. My father was also there fairly early, and throughout the day, others arrived – my mother, my sisters Kim and Vicky, Kim’s husband Mike and sons Blaine and Macon, Kori’s brother Troy, and her youngest sibling, Kirby. Our younger brothers – Chris and Toby, couldn’t make it, and Kendra & Steve were out of town but there in spirit.

I left the room just once – to eat lunch, which my father had picked up from the cafeteria.
Pam, used to a nighttime schedule, took a nap in the middle of the day.

The process was going slowly at first, and then spend up incredibly in the afternoon, so that when Pam woke up from her nap it was almost showtime.

As it turns out, Kori is a very good pusher. With her mother and I by her side, and with my mother replenishing cold damp washcloths, Kori pushed so well that the attending nurse had her breathe through three contractions without pushing, as Keelie’s head was in plain view for everyone to see, because the doctor was still on her way over. Because of how slowly things were going before, the doctor was contacted later than she should have been – but that’s hindsight for you.

I was an emotional wreck.

More medical staff appeared, anticipating the moment of delivery.

While holding Kori, I kept an eye on the monitors to check Keelie’s heart rate and Kori’s contractions. I just wanted it over with! I wanted Keelie out and Kori to be able to rest. Kori was just amazing – absolutely amazing.

Finally, the doctor, literally running, popped into the room, threw on some gear and out came Keelie at 4:27pm!

She was adorable and perfect, and had a head of thick, dark hair. I cried more than she did.
I cut the umbilical cord, and Keelie was placed on Kori’s chest. As Keelie was introduced to her mother face to face for the first time, Keelie made an “I love you” sign with one hand, as if she was going to suck on her middle fingers, but didn’t.


Then, Keelie was taken off of Kori to be examined and cleaned. She was placed on a warmed table while the doctor attended to Kori. Happy and shaking with excitement, I was trying to get video and pictures of Keelie, and I let Keelie hold on to my finger. At one point, Pam joined me and Keelie had one hand grasping my finger, and the other hand grasping Pam’s finger. It was around 5:30 or so before the doctor was done with Kori and Keelie was back with Kori.

After that, it was a parade of family coming through to see the mother and daughter. Kim and Vicky were the first back in the room with us.


Cousin Macon and Uncle Mike!



Grampa!

Pam was given the night off.

In the early evening, I went home to check on Shelby, who had been home alone since a little after midnight (she had access to food, water, and the doggy restroom). Pam and Bill stayed with Kori and Keelie. That’s when I was able to shower, upload the first couple of pictures, and call to make arrangements for Shelby to stay with our friends who live close to the hospital who have graciously watched Shelby many times before. Shelby knows them and gets along with their dog, so it works out.

When I got back to the hospital, Kori, Keelie, Pam, and Bill had been moved to the private postpartum room.

Keelie was sleeping. I picked her up in my arms and she made little humming noises. Lord, I was wrapped around her little finger!

Pam and Bill went home to get some rest. Kori has a great doctor, but it was also so helpful through the pregnancy and the delivery to have Bill and Pam’s experience and reassurances. Pam was not just being a grandmother and mother, she was a coach and so much help.



It was also nice, during this and the previous hospital visit (they kind of run together in my mind) to have friends and former coworkers of Kori - who now work at that hospital - stop by.

I turned the convertible chair into my bed, but Kori and I really didn’t get all that much sleep. Nurses were coming in to check on mother and daughter throughout the night, and of course there was our wonder over our little bundle of joy.

Wednesday the 20th, I pried myself away from the two most important ladies in my life to keep an appointment with the CHP in Santa Fe Springs. They check car seat installation for free (by appointment) and give some other safety tips. What a service! That was at 11am. I had scheduled it for late morning so that Kori could manage to go while I was at work, but since Keelie emerged a little early, I took the minivan.

From there, I went home to pick up some things per Kori’s request, then returned to the hospital.

Aunt Kirby, Uncle Troy, and for the first time, Uncle Toby dropped by to see our little bundle of joy and take pictures.

Pam worked that night and checked on us. It was so special to have Pam there as grandmother, mother, and postpartum nurse!

Thursday morning, the 21st, Pam spent some time with us after her shift.

I had been hoping to make it up to Arcadia for a previously scheduled baby shower at the office, but by the time everything was done and we were released in the afternoon, I would have arrived late, smelly, in casual attire, and with a beard going. I hated to disrupt plans, but the baby shower had to be rescheduled.

So, Kori, Keelie, and I dropped in to Pam & Bill’s on the way home. This allowed for more pictures with everyone. Pam woke up and joined us. She had prepared food for us to take home - bless her!




Back home, we enjoyed some of the food that Pam had prepared. Pam came over later and then we were joined by Aunt Kendra and Uncle Steve, who came straight over after getting home from being out of town. Bill came over to pick up Pam.

Friday, the 22nd, I ran some errands. In the evening, Kendra and Steve came over again, and brought food – bless them! After dinner, Steve and I went to retrieve Shelby from our friends.

We were worried about how Shelby, who sleeps in our bed, would react to the new addition to the family. Kori was nursing Keelie in bed when Steve and I returned. Shelby jumped up onto the bed, sniffed around, sniffed Keelie, and then softly and briefly licked the back of Keelie’s head. She seems fine with Keelie, even with the crying. Actually, she seems to be protective of Keelie and was looking at us like she had done something wrong when Keelie would cry.


Saturday the 23rd, nobody came over and we were home all day except for my short drive to pick up a new wall unit air conditioner I found on Craig’s List. We have an air conditioner working in the bedroom, but we need to replace one in the dining room. Nobody seems to do wall units anymore, unfortunately. So, I’m still trying to pry the old one out so I can stick the new one in.

Today, Sunday, we’ve been home all day, but Pam stopped by after working and going to church, and brought food – bless her! Also, my mother (Nanny) and Aunt Kim came down to see Keelie, and they brought food – bless them!

Keelie has been delightful. She seems to love being held by her grandparents, aunts, and uncles, reserving most of her crying for when they are gone.

Kori is such a wonderful, patient mother. I’m so proud of her and so amazed by her.

The nights are broken up by attending to Keelie, with Kori doing most of that and with me trying to do as much as possible to assist her and make her comfortable.

It’s quite a time in our lives, an incredible new journey on which we have embarked.
Thank you for all of your prayers, advice, and help. We’ll likely have more pictures to upload soon.

THANK YOU, LORD!

What We've Been Up To

I have been woefully neglectful in updating this blog. Kori and I have been keeping busy, especially in getting ready for the arrival of Keelie.

Our friend Jen took some great pregnancy photos in mid April. We also had more ultrasound pictures taken on April 20. You’ll see these photos in this update.

Keelie is quite a mover and loves to kick Mommie. It’s easy to see her movements on the surface of Mommie’s belly. She’ll stop moving long enough to listen to Daddy’s voice. She also loves listening to music. Yeah, this is how we all got here and hundreds of millions of women are pregnant at any given time, but isn’t it always different when it happens to you? And since Keelie is our first child, we’re going through experiences we’ve never had before. It is definitely one thing to know something on an intellectual level, but an entirely different thing to actually experience it.

The picture above is of Keelie snuggling up next to the placenta, and you can see her knee in the shot. The shot to the right shows Keelie with her foot in front of her face.

I have to say that Kori handles pregnancy well (and looks great!), though she has finally reached the point where she is ready for the pregnancy to be over.

We’ve had a lot of friends and acquaintances welcome babies over the last year, and we’ve been able to observe, on a casual basis, some of those babies as they go through their first few months. My father’s wife’s daughter just gave birth to her second child. Our friends Lynn & Erin just had a boy. I guess we’re just at that age.

We went to the birthing classes at the hospital, and a class at church designed for expecting first-time parents. I have three books for first-time expectant fathers that I’ve been reading through. Of course, there has also been the shopping, a baby shower limited to Kori’s close female friends, and the gifts (thank you!).

To get ready, we’ve been de-cluttering the condo in general, and I went back to working on “The Cave” so that we could turn it into the Nursery. That’s been quite an effort. That picture to the right should give you an idea of the look Kori is creating for the nursery. Also, rather to fix the problems we were having with our 4-year-old computer, we went ahead and got a new one, complete with Vista. This will no doubt keep my blood pressure raised as we work through the problems of Vista. Thanks, Microsoft.

Anyway, the reason I brought that up is that it meant we had yet another old computer taking up space in our place. I’ve been trying to move everything still on the one with Windows 95 to the one with XP so we can then properly dispose of the hobbled thing, and I won’t bore you with all of the gory details of that migration, which I haven’t managed to entirely finish yet.

Kendra and Steve, as a gift, recently devoted a lot of time and energy (with some assistance from Kori and I) in putting up shelves for our Christmas village miniatures. The village had been set up on a collapsible table along our front window while we were on our honeymoon. Since that was in December of 2004, It was well-past time to get that table back to Kori’s parents and free up some more space in the living room while enhancing the look.

Our most recent out-of-town trip killed three birds with one stone. We went to the San Diego/La Jolla area. It was a delayed Valentine’s Day/first-date anniversary observance combined with a “babymoon” that we deliberately moved to coincide with our attendance at Tez & Fermin’s wedding. Tez’s parents and Pam (Kori’s mother) went to high school together and have been friends ever since, and that extended to a family friendship between the two households.

As gifts, Kori made two blankets in their wedding/reception colors. The wedding was beautiful (so was the bride!) and the reception was a big-time party. The father of the bride is a successful TV writer/director/producer, and I was able to recount to him how, early on in our dating, I was telling Kori about how I watched his show and about a certain moment of a certain episode that I found hilarious, not knowing that Kori’s parents even knew him, let alone that they were consultants on that very episode. When Kori had filled me in, we’d shared a good laugh. So, I thanked him for being one of the reasons Kori and I ended up married. I was able to meet a couple of the actors, too.

We did a few other things on that trip. Kori and I ate at the 1950s-themed Corvette Diner, because Kori has for memories of that place, and hankering for a burger with peanut butter on it. That was good. The place is popular. We also ate at a Mexican restaurant in old town, visited the San Diego Zoo, and went to Sea World, where I finally got to see the haunted lighthouse 3-D movie in which ‘Weird Al’ Yankovic has a cameo.

Speaking of Mr. Yankovic – he and his band are on tour again, and scheduled to appear at the Orange County Fair again, but those appearances are awfully soon after Keelie’s due date. So, it looks like we’ll need ear plugs for Keelie. Okay, I kid. It looks like this will be the first time in ten years I’m going to be passing up a chance to go see my favorite act. I really hope they add a date or two later on at another local venue, like they have in the past - sometime in the late fall or whatever.

Something new we’ve been able to do in recent months is attend some of a certain friend’s Friday night film viewings. He’s from our parents’ generation but is young-at-heart, lives in beautiful, enchanting home he designed himself, and has an impressive home entertainment system. Typically, some of the folks meet for dinner out, then even more join up at the house afterwards or at a cinema for the viewing. In addition to new/impending feature film releases on DVD, the home viewings often include material attendees have brought to share. It’s a lot of fun. Kori had never been over the house before, and so she got a full tour. Also, she found kindred-spirit fans of “The Happiest Millionaire”.

With changes to our schedule and changes to the television networks’ schedules, we’ve resorted to taping more shows. Because of Kori, I watch more shows (or parts of shows) than I would have otherwise.

Not only have I been neglecting this blog, but I’ve haven’t been spending as much time contributing to LaughingPlace.com, The Disney Blog, and personal projects as I’d like. We’re not making Disneyland trips as often as we’d like, either. I guess we’re being prepared for life with a child. In recent months, every other set of days off or so, I get in some extra sleep, such us sleeping for thirteen hours or taking a long nap. We know we need as much sleep as we can get before Keelie emerges. Unfortunately, it is a lot easier for me to sleep than it is for Kori, as you can imagine.

There’s no resolution yet to our open legal matter. (We are the plantiffs.) That should all be wrapped up during an arbitration session sometime this year. Interestingly, three of the four people on “the other side” have long since left the company or have been fired.

Things are going well for me at the office. ACWM is a much lower profile place than DPW, so my quotes aren’t in print or going over the air nearly as much as they did when I was at DPW. I’m building a Public Information Office there, which involves a combination of taken some things off of the hands of others, and doing things that weren’t ever done before. Although it has been a while since we’ve all worked together, Marina, True, Kerjon, and I keep in touch.
Kori has been working hard and keeping busy getting things ready for Keelie. She’s doing a great job, and all of the help and encouragement from our families and friends is highly appreciated.

As for other news about our families… Troy has been selling insurance since coming back from Louisiana and has recently brought Toby in to help him, and Kirby has been performing as a fill-in in Pirates Dinner Adventure (and we’ve gone to see her). Kendra and Steve have been a GREAT help to us in preparing for Keelie’s arrival, Steve being a trooper given he’s had a tough job doing things like working on the website for a certain top-rated television singing show and will still join Kendra in helping out. Pam’s been working with the new mothers and newly arrived babies in her nursing duties, and Bill continues to work in real estate. Chris has been working for a local school district. Vicky is still working at the Pasadena Ritz-Carlton, and she has also been keeping company with a certain famous lawyer who is in the news a lot lately. Mike is still working in the same line of work, and Kim is still assisting with the special needs students in school, and they are also raising Keelie’s cousins Blaine and Macon, who are both in high school. Mom is teaching less as she oversees some home improvement projects. Dad continues to work hard in private practice three years after retiring from county service. His wife, Kathleen, is as busy as ever with her work and projects.

Through participating in online pregnancy forums, Kori has discovered MySpace. I may have to set things up here so that we can both be online at the same time on different machines.

So, that’s what’s been going on here. If you want more my thoughts about stuff such as television, computer/online stuff, work, and so on, check it out on my blog. I didn’t think that Kori’s friends should have to wade through all of that here. Only my friends should be so tortured.

It has been over three years since I proposed to Kori, and I was struck the other day by the intense feeling that I have absolutely no doubt that I made a good choice, the right choice, in proposing to her. With so many things in life, it is easy to think “What if I had made a different choice? Would I be better off now?” I can say with certainty that in this case, I made the best choice. I have no regrets or questions lurking in the recesses of my mind – that was the smartest thing I’ve ever done for myself.

Drop us a line to let us know how you are doing and what you’ve been up to.

-Ken

It's Been a Good Start to the Year

We had our latest ultrasound session today - pictures may follow later... need to scan them, having computer issues, etc. etc. etc...

Anyway, Aunt Kendra and Grandma 'Nanny' were there with us. Everything is looking great, and the baby is being very active. We finally confirmed for sure that the baby is a GIRL! That's right... the first granddaughter on either side of the family is kicking and waving and being shy. We have photographic evidence, however, that she's a girl. I'm sure she'll be happy that we kept those, oh, about 12 years from now.

Not much else to report. We caught some big football game on television yesterday.

We're trying to make the adjustments to being parents. I'm so proud of Kori.